1. How many children is the right number for a preschooler's party?
The guest list should be composed of your child's close friends and close family members.
Keep in mind that a very large party may overwhelm the birthday child.
In addition, consider the size limitations of your party space.
2. How long should the party be?
Ninety minutes is the length of time I recommend for a preschool party.
A good party flow includes 15 minutes of a welcoming activity, 45 minutes of organized entertainment or activities, and 30 minutes for refreshments and passing out party favors.
3. My child's birthday falls on a holiday. Should we move the party date?
It can be fun to have a special themed birthday party on holidays like the 4th of July, Valentine's Day, or Halloween--when your guest may not already have prior family commitments.
If the birthday falls on a holiday when most people have family gatherings, you can still have the party if your guest list is predominantly family. But if your guest list is mainly class friends, they may have family commitments that day and will be unable to attend.
4. Should we send the invitations to school with our child or mail the invitations?
It's exciting for children to receive an invitation by mail. However, invitations can be sent to school if time is an issue and if you have included all of the children in the class.
5. Should we ask parents to stay?
Some preschoolers may have separation anxiety. To avoid this being a disruption at your party, invite an accompanying adult for each of the party guests. This is a nice time for parents to see their children at play and to socialize with other parents.
